goldengirl,
Boy, can I relate to this thread! Through the help of SR and my own soul searching I have come to realize that my dry drunk husband is psychologically abusing me.
Not to long ago I noticed one of his arms had turned all purple. It reminded me of how my body looked after my organs had started to fail. My mid waist had turned a dark purple. I looked like Barney!
STUPID ME!
Out of my concern for him, I suggested that he get a physical. He just snapped on me. He turned the subject totally away from him getting a physical and accused me of spending $150.00 without me running it through him first. I bring home by myself at least $2600.00 a month.
Talk about an irrational attack! I still haven't figured that one out!
