Originally Posted by
lillamy 
I'm tired of wondering about the motivation or reasons or needs behind other people's behavior. I'm completely and utterly ready to let them deal with those things themselves. Me? I will deal with them based on their behavior towards me. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, I'm not going to waste my precious time contemplating whether it had a traumatic hatching experience, I'm just going to declare it a duck and go on with my life.
Maybe I'll hit a point where I become more sympathetic again. Right now, I'm not there.
Rock on. I'm totally with ya. I'm not sure I will ever be sympathetic. And it's not like I am really angry. Just done. If that makes any sense? I was always more angry trying to be sympathetic. It's a bit peaceful and cathartic not really paying any mind to why someone is the way they are. They just are, and I completely have the choice to not be bothered with, or sucked into it.