I am so glad you have your sponsor to talk to.
Your needs for sleep and rest, serentiy and peace in your home are valid. You need those things in order to maintain your health, restore your well-being, and to take proper care of yourself and your child.
It is a shame that your H does not contribute to the well being of all..but I guess he isn't capable, but there is no reason for you to suffer from his insanity.
I am glad you took steps to shield yourself, to get rest and are reaching out to find your balance.