Originally Posted by
Babyblue I don't know but if someone had told me a couple of years ago that I'd be pining over some guy who had no job and no home, a broken spirit and not two nickels to rub together, I would have laughed and thought it absurd to think that "I" would be with someone like that.
Well here I am! What changed? Nothing actually. I'm in this bizarro world because I fell for him long before his issue surfaced so I am holding my breath, seeing if that person will ever return.
Magic eightball says: try again later.
Babyblue-i am going through the same thing, as of this am.
I am a intelligent, secure, financially stable, woman.
I have a great family, many friends, lots of outside interests...
BUT am in love with an ALCOHOLIC. He is 6 months sober, goes to 3-4 AA meetings a week and told me this am he cannot be in a romantic relationship with me.
I do NC, but HE is the one that keeps coming back to me....just when I think I am moving forward. The last time he was only gone from my life for 1
month.
He has lost both of his homes, only works 1 day a week, and has had to move back with his parents, at the age of 51.
I ask myself over and over am I nuts???????
My next course if AlAnon.
I am SO happy I found this site.....