My husband called. He talked to someone at the hospital and they want us to come in for a meeting tomorrow morning - including our son. The meeting is to work things out with a plan because he wants to come home.
There has been some damage to my relationship with my son from my side - namely yelling. I have been toxic in that regard - so frustrated. So, like one of the posters said, either I start to heal myself, or he might move on without me. Regardless, I need help for myself. God forbid that he continue down this path like so many of you have described, I'm going to have to learn how to deal with that.
thanks so much and I'll keep you posted.