Hey Alove
Dont beat yourself up about the 'I will always be a true friend to him, and that i hope he............him". That is EXACTLY what i told my ABF.....who has since decided to recommit to AA.
Like Summerpeach said - I also dont get this breaking up for recovery thing for the same reason as what do those do who are married?
So for now I guess you just focus on you and your recovery.