And the nightmare continues... I'm back sitting on the fence: Do I stay, or do I go?
Forgive me for forgetting how long ago you found out about the affair but for me, I needed a good year and a half before the triggers from the affair, and the desperation to believe he really did love and want me gave way to self preservation.
Just be kind to yourself-and by that I mean keep reminding yourself that you will be happy without him too.