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Old 12-08-2010, 03:59 AM
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transformyself
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And the nightmare continues... I'm back sitting on the fence: Do I stay, or do I go?
Forgive me for forgetting how long ago you found out about the affair but for me, I needed a good year and a half before the triggers from the affair, and the desperation to believe he really did love and want me gave way to self preservation.

Just be kind to yourself-and by that I mean keep reminding yourself that you will be happy without him too.
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