Old 12-07-2010, 09:14 PM
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freefalling
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Originally Posted by RollTide View Post
"If I knew then what I know now I would have ran away screaming when he asked me out."

"If I knew then what I know now...I would bail like a house-a-fire."

Me too on both of these.
Me too. My husband was very high functioning. Started his own business - became stinking rich> i did not have to work even ! We are on the verge of losing everything. He is in rehab nr 16 (yearlong)

my children suffered - because of alcoholism and me- that became crazy and I still am fighting the craziness off after 23 years of marriage. It does not happen in one day.

Think of the future children! By far the biggest regret is that I stayed too long.

I left when I was sick and tired. You will make your own plans. I applaud you for seeking information and guidance- as that is brave and show that you are showing awareness. !

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