Lillamy,
I have some older female relatives. They were a bunch of sister in laws known as "the merry widows". They were married to brothers. The husbands were all a piece of work but they had to wait until they were dead. Boy, did those ladies make up for the years with the "difficult" husbands! Everyone knew what they had put up with and no-one could say a da^n thing about it! I love that they at least got to live out there lives with enjoyment. Anyone who judges is an a$$.
That's why women live longer, because they deserve the break!