How do you deal with the liars in your lives?
I assume they are lying. I do not let them live with me. I minimize contact with them.
How many chances do you give?
I gave the last one two chances, but I was largely detached from this person and otherwise very stable in my life. I operate under the assumption that if a person cheats on me once, he will do it again. To me, no relationship with a man is worth risking my life. AIDS is fatal and HPV causes cervical cancer, which is also fatal. A cheater and a liar is a dangerous person. Love yourself and protect yourself from this man please.