thank you everyone for your posts. Im on a year of seperation (divorce is in the process) and appreciate you all sharing your experiences on here.
Gave me things to think about and more reason to take time for me.
People are constantly asking me "go out have fun go dating" NOT..I seriously
need alot more recovery. A few guys even offered to take me out or go out to talk, people who I have known for 30 years. Im just not ready.
Only somone who has been down this road can understand. thank you all for sharing your experiences.