Amen sister! You're not alone in this either! I also have been repeating the same patterns of not listening to my instincts, allowing unhealthy people into my life and then allowing them to manipulate me!! It is true that we have to resolve our past and make our selves whole and healthy again. We have to figure out who we are, what we want, what we deserve and most importantly to trust and respect ourselves!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I personally am sick of drama and want a peaceful loving relationship with someone who I can trust, who I respect, and who is my best friend!! I wont settle ever again for less than this! Keeping my eyes open and trusting my mind and feelings next time around!!!!!!