I am very sorry you are hurting but feel I must tell you that everything he said sounds like complete bull$hit to me. You are confused right? Because what he did and said was MEANT to confuse you. I have had XBFs do this to me too. Break up with me to get me to react emotionally, hurt me ON PURPOSE, so that I run to THEM. If it were me now, I would immediately go No Contact, don't text, call or email and don't accept any from him either. You break up with me? Fine buddy, we're done. Not playing this game. Get your girlfriends and family all around you for support. (((hugs)))