Goldengirl, please don't take offense at my answer, just my honest opinion!
I feel guilty about a lot of things I have done, like begging and pleading with my AH to stop drinking for 16 years......like expecting him to listen to me......like staying married to him for 39 years......like expecting him to help take care of me when I came home from the hospital after my stroke! Do I feel guilty for asking him to stop drinking...... H*LL NO!
Am I going to feel guilty leaving him ASAP......fractured neck and everything......H*LL NO! (Or at least I don't plan too)
You wrote "That's not the first time I've read someone post words like that. Anyone care to elaborate what they mean by that?" I'm not sure what you are asking.
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