i did too,when he was in prison my mum used to say to me that i need to give him ultimatums about his drinking or he will just carry on but i justified it by saying that the best thing to do is just let him get on with it and show him that he is not affecting my life! Well he was affecting my life big time but i chose not to see it becasue i wasnt ready to leave him,which is why i was always scared to say 'stop drinking or i will leave you'. i knew i wouldnt folow through with it. Crazy or what!! so god damn glad im free of that. xx