Don't forget that you NOT worrying yourselves over your A's and all the c**p of being so involved in THEM, is very NEW to your brain and it is still learning the new you. It will happen again, but eventually you will have dumped the old habits and replaced them with GOOD new ones, and wanting to know what these pathetic souls are doing will not even come to mind.
Keep on as you are, and you will make it happen.