Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
i sure as hell hope relapse is not inevitable, or i'm screwed!!! relapse is merely a possiblity, not a STEP of the program. what tools do you have going in YOUR life so that you remain ok regardless of what anyone else does - cuz there ain't no happily ever after and there are NO 100% guarantees that an addict will never use again.
True, true. And we're not supposed to do this, right? Worry about their program...he's doing great and I might just be looking for an impending crisis in conversations that actually indicate heightened awareness and better dedication to a program. Right...me...I need a sponsor and a program (and possibly an arsenal of antidepressants as well)...nothing to do with him. Especially during this holiday season. Oy vey! Getting back on track...