Originally Posted by
goldengirl3 
And everything he says seems to go in circles and not make sense. Are they aware of what they are doing?
This is exactly what they do and completly frustrating for the sober party who wants a grown up discussion and resolved conclusion. Many of us dont even realise that they do this for a long time into relationships. But when the penny finally drops its time to stop with this nonsense. Its crazy talk and will just make you crazy trying to analyse it! No contact for you would really be the best thing, cut your losses and move on. Why make yourself miserable thinking of the what ifs, if onlys etc.