I think you should worry about you and let him worry about him." Im going to go live nwith a chick from the program" is a threat. I know its hard but dont let him do that to you. I am the addict in my relationship and I can be very manipulitive.We are not as weak and needy as we seem and when left to our own devises we will either sink or swim with or without you.Sorry but thats the facts Take care of you