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Old 11-22-2010, 01:21 PM
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LucyA
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The only part of your post I can respond to is the 'you can't drink at my house' part. I would feel perfectly happy saying that to anyone, but I wouldn't have double standards and drink at dinner myself if that was my boundary.

Your boundaries are for YOU, not him.
They should be about what you are comfortable with and what you will do if they are broken or pushed too far, not about what he can and can't do.

He can/will do what he likes, but if he pushes your boundaries too far what will you do about it?
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