Originally Posted by
NoAlcoholToday 
Thank you for this, Kitty. It is very encouraging.
breakingglass, you may not have seen a thread I put on here a couple of weeks ago asking whether my wife would be even madder at me because I am quitting than she was before I quit.
naive and Learn2Live (amongst others) gave me some fabulous advice: get yourself healthy first and then take care of those worries - dont get ahead of yourself.
Also I think it is very important to try and move forward together in recovery rather than try to go back to the way things used to be in the past.
PS I am really feeling for you - I know it must be a huge disappointment after he managed to do 5 days
i was a very huge dissappointment. but it told him that i would rather he be disappointed in himself then to worry whether or not i am disappointed in him. after that he said "I'll get back on the wagon, i promise".... if i had nickel for every time i heard that............