Desertrose,
i'm so glad you got the necessary help and was saved from this person before it got ugly,i imagine you thought he wouldnt do you harm and you didnt take those threats seriously but thank god someone else did.
and Live,i too am glad i remembered SR and glad i came here for help.
I thank everyone who posted in this thread and shared a story or an advice to help and support me. i came here weak but now i feel i'm starting to gain back my strength. you told me everything i needed to here and proved to me that i'm not the only one who has suffered and still suffering but also showed me the way out of this pain.i'm still scared but i'm working on myself and i'm still going no contact.