I'm a small town girl in a big crazy world....
So I get to work early today and decide to say hello to another lady in the office on my way to my desk. (There are few women in my office.)
We start talking and within the ten minutes she tells me that she and her husband are swingers and how they swap partners and what it's like to be the other woman and how she has been jealous before of other women and on and on.
What scared me was how selfish she seemed to be - as though because she would have feelings for another woman's man, she had rights to him.
Part of my fear, is that was my ex had been in an emotional affair at work and that woman seemed to think she had rights to my bf. (It was something that had started while he was married and then continued until I came along.) When I finally talked to her (I tried to as nicely as I could) that I really needed her to back off - she went off. That was very embarrassing for me and still is to this day.
People just scare me sometimes.