Old 11-18-2010, 10:30 AM
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Wittss
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Great question! In one hour I will find out the "next step" for my AH. Will he be coming home from the nursing home, is he going into some sort of rehab inpatient or outpatient? What's going to happen? I started rereading Melanie Beattie's "Co-dependant No More" last night and I know that MY JOB is going to be continuing MY PROGRAM. I waited for 22 years to see the emotional connection. I don't think it's there anymore, but I may be surprised. I hope for your sake you two can connect, but as for me, I'm not going to live on hope, expectations, in case it doesn't happen...again. Every time I'm disappointed, I become more angry, hurt and codependant. It'll be interesting to watch myself grow, fall down, skin my knees and get up again, with or without my AH. It's still about you taking care of you. One day at a time.
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