Originally Posted by
brokenheartfool 
If he was quitting for himself, he wouldn't say what he did about not quitting until you came back.
If he is quitting for you--he will relapse. he must quit for himself.
I agree with you...the justification he said is "he is quitting for himself because he wants his family back" It is logic that probably won't hold up and I have little faith that he won't relapse, but for now it is what he is bringing to the table whether I like it or not. If/when it doesn't work out then I will still be where I am at holding my ground.