Well , I work with drug/alcohol exposed children and I can say that I am so glad that your baby has people willing to step in. Adults can do whatever they want to eah other..fine.But your baby has no say, no power, and depends on you to make the right decisions for his care.
Mom is an adult and can find help.Your baby needs you and your family to thrive. Hope those CPS reports and hospital stays work in your favor when(if) the time comes. Keep up all yout good work and enjoy that baby! It goes by so fast and you don't want to miss one thing being distracted by your wife's addiction.