I agree Suki on that one month isn't a very long time and I am concerned that if I move back before I am ready and he is ready that it would be a mistake especially concerning moving my two kids back and forth. I think that is part of the anxiety I am feeling...I feel like I am expected to figure things out quickly. The counselor just suggested I come up with a timeline as to a minimum amount of time and that was my minimum, yet, I am struggling with the timeline thing in general. I think next session I am going to tell him and the counselor that a month is a minimum and a guideline before any considerations with be made, but that I will not commit to a timeline of when I will move in. When and/if I move back depends on how I am feeling and I need to give myself the space to make clear choices for myself and my kids.