My 20th will be held in the spring. I've already decided that I will not be attending. People from my past didn't make it to my future for a reason, and though it may be nice to see them, chances are they won't become a part of my life. Although I can relate to LaFemme, as I was an at home drinker, I wouldn't want to be tempted, especially for something unnecessary. But that is just my opinion. A lot of people have a blast at them, but if it will threaten your new sobriety, forget it. Facebook the people you care about, and make arrangements for lunch instead.