Originally Posted by
nodaybut2day 
If I didn't work in a stuffy law office, I'd be up dancing at my desk! Since I can't, let's have an awesome SR party for you !!!
Thanks, noday!!! I really do not think I would have been able to do this without your help!! And, everyone else on SR as well.
There is something transformative about having support from other people who are dealing with these issues. If I had to draw a picture it would like me, under a pile of rocks, and with each post and reply, one rock was lifted off of the pile, one a time. I know that I still have to work to do- I do NOT want to find myself in the same situation again. I have learned so much, but a lot of it I think I already knew, I just didn't know how to use the knowledge that was already there (I consider that my HP's doing!).
You are lifesavers- all of you!
craven