Originally Posted by
FindingPeace1 
You can want him to go, but that is YOU wanting HIM to do something. YOU want HIM to understand why he drinks the way he does.
There is no cheese down that tunnel.
But, he has every right to decline to do what I want.
Amen, Sister FindingPeace!! Can I get a witness?!?!?!
Originally Posted by
FindingPeace1 I don't know if you're like me, but I feel like I could DEAL with it - smoking, drinking, shopping addiction, porn - even cheating (which hasn't been a problem for us) if he would just LOOK AT IT and try to work on it! AHHHHHH!
DITTODITTODITTO!
But, I(we) know that he has to do the looking, not me(us)!!
Originally Posted by
FindingPeace1 And I can say it is a deal breaker.
And I can love him even as I leave.
So simple and beautiful. And true!!