Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
And even more on point is why do you want to date someone who must change in order for you to be with them?
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Ahh... you're right, those are the questions I need to ask myself, because I know I shouldn't be with someone for his potential but for who he is right now!
So, I think the reason I'm so focused on what happened is that I want to get back together with him (which I told myself I won't do for another 6-9 months and working hard on not giving in), but I'm scared that things would go right back to where they used to be! BUT I think I need to go back to ODAT and not worry about something that's not even here yet... I got enough on my plate as is! *step away from the addict and HIS recovery*
Thanks Yorkie for sharing your story
... it put some things in perspective for me.