(((Phoenix))) - we had another member, here, who changed her screen name to include "Phoenix" because of what it stands for. I think a lot of us codies feel like we have risen from the ashes when we're finally able to let others live their life, and we learn how to focus on us.
Thanks for the poem. I only had a vague idea of what the whole Phoenix thing met, now I know!
Hugs and prayers,
Amy