Originally Posted by
Learn2Live 
Evenkeel, what are you doing to take care of your SELF?
Me? You mean in amongst keeping this household running all by myself, working 30 hours a week and being supportive to my wife and in-laws? lol No, actually I'm relaxing as much as possible with books and funny stuff online, focusing on doing fun things with the boys, doing some baking and cooking, spoiling the dogs (we have four chihuahuas)...and most importantly not worrying too much about what "could" happen and dwelling on current circumstances. I got some really good financial news yesterday which has taken a load off of my shoulders and makes this all seem not so overwhelming. When I'm stressed, clutter and disorganization bother me (more than usual) but I'm highly motivated to fix it so I've been indulging that also, something I don't usually do because I've been known to reorganize and declutter so much my wife can't find things anymore. lol
I have accepted that this is going to be day-by-day. I'm doing whatever I can to get through each day with a minimum of stress.