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i hear you. please forgive me. it is part of our sickness, this need to obsess about the alcoholic. for myself, i would actually take pleasure in joining in and itemizing his tantrums. it is because i feel so used and manipulated, that i can rationalize striking out in such an unhealthy way.
you were right to call us on it. i'm glad you're here and i always appreciate your perspective.
navie