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ala3037 Isn't horrible that we have to feel this? It makes me so upset to know that there are other people out there hurting and confused because of the stupid choices of others.
Hey Ala! One hand, yes, it is horrible. But, on the other hand, I am very grateful that I am aware of what is going on in my own head. I know that I contributed to half of the problems in our relationship, and BF contributed the other half. For a long time I carried the weight of 'fixing' our relationship. I put all of that on ME, and that's just not the way it works. I think I knew that, somewhere deep down inside, but now I really KNOW it, and it is incredibly comforting. Thank you for the hug!!
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ala3037 I hope that you are having a good day and welcome. I have to say that this forum has eased my soul and dried my tears and gave me smiles.
I really don't know where I would be if I hadn't found this forum. Honestly!! It is a life saver!! You all are lifesavers!!
I can't say it enough- THANK YOU!!
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