Originally Posted by
Chino 
What is the problem that keeps you here?
That's a very good question. One I'm also trying to figure out.
I guess it would be the fact that I am still not over the relationship and her, regardless of the alcohol. Alcohol is just the reason I can never get back with her.
Lots of relationships end, for different reasons, the love is no longer there, someone cheated, different goals, etc. Mine ended because we couldn't agree on her not drinking anymore. Most of the people here also ended their relationships for the same reason.
There is a proverb in Hebrew that roughly translates to "The trouble of many - half of the consolation." Which is the same as the reason many people go to support groups: to hear that other people have suffered the same or more, somehow makes us feel better.