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Old 11-11-2010, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by HowManyChances View Post
Im heartbroken. I feel as though I was in this fairytale world were we were deeply in love. But i was in love with him, he wasnt with me.
I wouldn't even say that he did not love you. But as is now, he is simply not a whole person, able to love and give as a man should. He just cannot.

You do see the writing on the wall, and you are having a hard time accepting it, and living with the consequences. It took me months to come to the painful realization that my notion and idea about him and our relationship was not going to come to fruition. I finally got tired, and sick, of waiting for that "maybe" and decided to grab the life that I knew was out there. That, however, took another few months. There is no shortcut for getting through this stuff. It's darned hard, and painful, and there are setbacks.

BUT!
A beautiful life really does await you. It really does; I promise.

Please trust here on this board. Many of us have walked in your shoes.

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