How can you get to step three without first doing steps one and two?
Admitting the powerless part is the first thing.
Then coming to believe in a power greater than yourself is second.
It's so individual. A river is more powerful than I am. Oxygen is more powerful.
I have a violent reaction to christian evangelizing, so I steer clear of those folks, but otherwise, live and let live.
Also, I plan to hug the daylights out of all you personal spacers when we finally meet up.
Just sayin