I see many of those definitions in the one I know. Gladly my attention has shifted to what I can do with my day today. I accepted I will never get the why's about someone else. I do not even know the why's about me, lol.
I already thought too much about why he says, acts,the way he does. Anti social? you bet, drunk driving.. how more anti social and self destructive can you get? anyway reality is still the same for him.
If I do the same study-why I say, act the way I do- I find a deeper understanding of myself and I find many tools to keep this ship on sea and taking the course I want it to take. It is more fruitful.