Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Oxnard (The Nard), CA, USA.
Posts: 13,955
The alcoholic partner that was in my life sure was troubled, that's for sure. Was this woman thoroughly evaluated by a qualified psychologist...no. Did I slap a crazy label on her...yes I did. Did it help me move past the anger and into healing for myself...no.
I could easily recognize that living with AGF was no longer an option. What helped most was to take the wasted scrutiny I was spending on her and divert my attention to what I need to do in order to live safe and sane.