Originally Posted by
Hollyanne 
I read your post just now.
I found the post troubling to say the least.
Please take what you like and leave the rest.
If any of the content of this post triggers you, please take a few deep breaths and walk around the block.
I am a recovering alcoholic. I also exhibited some of these behaviors. Reading this post reminds me how thankful I am to be in recovery. These are the behaviors I choose to avoid for the remainder of my life.
When I read and post in F&F forum, I try to remember that the members here have lived with unacceptable behavior. Behavior that I too was capable/guilty of.
However, I also was on the receiving end of such behavior from my partner. While in this area of SR, I try to share my experience, strength and hope based on my experience as a recovering partner of a 14 year marriage to an alcoholic.
I strive to identify with my fellow SR members as we support one another in recovery.