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Old 11-09-2010, 11:20 PM
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HowManyChances
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: pittsburgh pa
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Unhappy Leaving your boyfriend.

Hi!

I want peoples thoughts on leaving someone because their addiction.

Recovering Addicts- did your loved one leave you? Do you blame them?

Suffering Addcits- Would losing your loved one make you want to quit? Would you quit for them?

Just some background information:

In a relationship for 6 years. He is now an oxycodone, oxycottin user. Hell snort 3oxys at a time, when he wakes up for work, comes home from work, and a little later around 9. prettymuch just whenever he can get them. I cant do it anymore. i am not an addict nor will I ever be. My parents were heroin addicts and I seen/lived the life of those choices. I just want him to be clean. I told him its rehab or Im gone. He said he wont go back to rehab, so I told him fine, you made yoru decision. lose my number..

i dont want this. i want a normal life with him. i want him to be sober and be withme.

do i leave and move on with my life.

or support him and try to help him as it is not him its his addiction.

im addicted to his love

oxycodone and roxys, 30's, he lives in his mothers house with just him and his brother (mother moved for new job) brother is now an addict also and doing same stuff. It churns my stomach when I hear them fighting over if they got high without the other person. What have they become??????
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