Originally Posted by
Andrea831 
Part of me is afraid to bring these things up because I dont want to force him to drink again, or drive him to drink is the best way to say it. I dont want to be any reason to it. I am afraid to bring anything up because of that...
I guess my question now would be what are you getting out of having contact with him at this point?
If he drinks, he drinks. If you were powerful enough to drive him to drink, you'd certainly powerful enough to get him into real recovery, no?
Personally I can't be, and refuse to be around angry toxic people, period.