Now, WHY is he not taking my concerns seriously and doing something to help bring about some kind of resolution?
He does it because he's an alcoholic. He's doing what alcoholics do, and it has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with him.
You've been expressing your concern for three years.
Nothing has changed.
Walking away from my EXAH was one of the hardest things I ever did in my life.
I didn't die from the discomfort of leaving a toxic relationship.
That discomfort was temporary.
I'll take that discomfort over the pain and crazy-making of being involved in a dysfunctional relationship any day of the week.
I wish you nothing but the best because that is what you deserve.
Just my two cents.