Welcome Seekanswers,
You've got so many wonderful posts that there's little I can add! But I can reiterate:
If it's a problem for YOU, then it's a problem.
Please get yourself to an Al Anon meeting. You'll learn how to detach and take care of yourself.
I didn't see it posted yet so I'll give you the 3 Cs:
You didn't
Cause this
You can't
Control this
You can't
Cure this
Please take care of yourself and keep posting. You are not alone!
