If it were my alcoholic daughter in jail, I would go to the video hearing.
I would want to listen to the sentence and conditions of probation.
I would want to hear it from the judge.
My reason for wanting to hear it for myself, would be to protect myself from the manipulation and lies if my daughter tries to skip out on terms of probation by saying things like: "the judge said if I do x,y,z then I can ______"
I've fallen for alcoholic logic before.