There is a man in my group who is an alcoholic that has been sober for a couple of years. He and his wife come to our meeting. They have two sons who are adddicts. He never went to AA...that's just how it worked out for him. He adds a lot to our meetings and I really look forward to his shares.
You probably have a good feel for what you need and what works for you. And if it's not working they tweek it until it does.