Aurum,
So sorry to hear about the place you're in.
You have come to the right place. I've found nothing but compassion and support here and I'm sure you will too. Actually, you already have!
Please try an Al Anon meeting. I've been to 4 or 5 and it's really starting to have an impact on my life. One of the meetings is a men's group.
Please keep posting.
