Coffeelover
That sounds like such a stressful situation. It frustrates me when people need help and they keep running into brick walls. I'm glad that your Dad is going to be there to help you and provide you some loving support.
You'll here us say all the time that we take it "one day at a time". Well sometimes, we take it one hour at a time, or even one minute at a time........breathe and try to do something that will soothe your nerves for just a litte while (a nice hot bath perhaps?).
Take care of you.
gentle hugs