I'm a big fan of "plan in advance and THEN leap". It takes a lot of the stress out for me. So perhaps you start by looking for a place to live, move your valuable paperwork someplace safe, find some cheap furniture to start over, open a separate account and have the funds transfered over, look at how to get let out of your lease or finding someone to take over, look at how to transfer utilities over to your BF, look at the cost and logistics of moving, etc etc.
When all those things have been worked out, THEN decide what you're going to say. In the end, it won't matter that much what you say because you'll already have taken action. It'll just be a formality.
but this is JMO. I'm "Stealthy NoDay"
